Will we be more vocal as gay men if Trans men start demanding we sleep with them?

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My earlier post asking other gay men to really take up the issue of our lesbian sisters being called “bigots” by trans women(M2T) for not sexually or romantically engaging with them. Step back and look closer: Heterosexual Males ganging up on lesbian women for not sleeping with them. Males who hold an ideology that their power of “identity” can transcend most physical realities, and as such they are as much a valid lesbian as a born female lesbian, and if this falls into question with a female born lesbian she is a transphobic bigot.

Quite a few people have made mention of my focus seemingly solely on trans women. Because of this they like to call me a “transmisogynist” in lieu of just plain ole “transphobic”. Don’t worry though, I get that too. The focus on trans women over trans men(F2T) is due primarily for two reasons. The first being…

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  1. Sex is the bottom line here, really, isn’t it? I can be accepting and inclusive of transfolk of any gender, until it comes to sex. I’m not bisexual. I am homosexual. I do not have the same biological response to a man that I have to a woman. I also do not have the same biological response to a translesbian as she is having to me. THAT is the problem.

    As a lesbian, I have certain biological responses to women which, even if not acted upon or even talked about are, nonetheless, present, and it does color relationships, if even subtly.

    Sleeping with a transwoman would be perceived by my body as sleeping with a man. Probably, sleeping with a transman would be perceived by my body as ALSO sleeping with a man. (No, I am not going to experiment to find out for sure).

    Forcing another person to have sex with someone that they do not wish to is rape. This includes force by intimidation, bullying, shaming, guilt-tripping, and any of the other strategies that have been devised by humans to improve our gene pool.

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