Archive | March 28, 2013

Today’s reading



Ten of Stones

The inner and outer community that sustains and supports the individual, not necessarily blood family but the trusted friends, comrades and lovers who offer security and affection. …the community is in harmony.

Coming home to oneself, an abundant home life, feeling spiritually and financially happy, loving one’s immediate environment.

What are you darn pagans celebrating now? Ostara/Eostre/Spring Equinox

So for folks that follow this blog and aren’t pagan how about a primer on the holiday?

Ostara/Eostre/Vernal Equinox/Spring

This is the holiday of the Maiden form of the Goddess. This is not a sex holiday. You have to wait for May first to do the naughty. Hence the poem:

Hooray, Hooray

The first of May

Outdoor fucking

Starts today.

But enough of that, Ostara as I said is the Maiden. The old story of Persephone/Proserpina returning to the world from Hades and to her mother, Ceres/Demeter. Now the world can come alive again and stop being sad because it was winter.

Some people have associated it with Ceridwen and her cauldron and her chasing Gwion because the first thing she changes into is a rabbit. Not so sure about that one.

The Great Bede said: Original Latin:

Eostur-monath, qui nunc Paschalis mensis interpretatur, quondam a Dea illorum quæ Eostre vocabatur, et cui in illo festa celebrabant nomen habuit: a cujus nomine nunc Paschale tempus cognominant, consueto antiquæ observationis vocabulo gaudia novæ solemnitatis vocantes.[4]


Eosturmonath has a name which is now translated "Paschal month", and which was once called after a goddess of theirs named Eostre, in whose honour feasts were celebrated in that month. Now they designate that Paschal season by her name, calling the joys of the new rite by the time-honoured name of the old observance.

Some say that birds often lay on the ground and rabbits tend to hide in the same areas ground birds nest in and that people then thought that bunnies laid the eggs but that makes people in ancient times sound very stupid and I’m sure they were no dumber than any Republican is so I doubt that one too.

Some say it’s Freya and her rabbit or cat drawn chariots. In point of fact we really don’t know how people celebrated and Christianity did a pretty good job of stomping it out.

What do we know for sure? It’s the holiday most associated with the return of the spring goddess . The Romans were celebrating Hilaria dedicated to Cybele according to Marcus Aurlelius but Ovid doesn’t mention it?

My coven has a tendency to be literal and parade a globe around the sun who stands shining in the middle of the room so that everyone can see where the light now falls on our rotating ball and how it travels. We know that it’s equal day and equal night and we are scientists for the most part.

It isn’t a particularly important holiday unlike Passover or Good Friday/Easter. There are no records of huge celebrations or pageants in history for Ostara. It’s a good day to welcome spring if you can and celebrate the warming of the earth and the beginnings of the planting season.

So go out and plant your seeds and water them well and get growing.

Inch by inch, row by row

Gonna make this garden grow

All it takes is a rake and a hoe

And a piece of fertile ground

Inch by inch, row by row

Someone bless these seeds I sow

Someone warm them from below

Till the rain comes tumblin down

Pullin weeds and pickin stones

Man is made of dreams and bones

Feel the need to grow my own

Cause the time is close at hand

Rainful rain, sun and rain

Find my way in natures chain

Tune my body and my brain

To the music from the land

Plant your rows straight and long

Temper them with prayer and song

Mother Earth will make you strong

If you give her love and care

Old crow watchin hungrily

From his perch in yonder tree

In my garden Im as free

As that feathered thief up there

Words and music by Dave Mellett

Thank you to our straight allies

I want to say a huge “Thank You!” to all the people who identify as straight and put the Human Rights Campaign’s red equals sign on their Facebook pages this week. You have no idea how wonderful that is to see. It took some courage to do that if you have conservative friends and relatives that might attack for thinking gay people have simple human rights. Gay people are all too aware that some people hate them and hate them with a passion that is mystifying and illogical according to their own holy book.

And it’s hate born of such deep fear that it’s almost unimaginable. And it’s a stupid fear because the fear is that my choice means their choice is wrong and that’s so stupid I have a real problem with it. It’s the same fear that haunts pagans. For some people other people’s life choices are taken to reflect back on the hater’s choices. Why? Are they that vain and insecure that they think they have to control everyone else’s life choices?

The first time I saw this in action up close and person was when my mother figured out I was pagan which for some reason she figured out before she knew I was gay even though I’d been out of the closet a whole lot longer than I’d been a practicing pagan.

My mother flat out said that if I was pagan it reflected on her Christianity and whether she would have to explain to Jesus when she died why I wasn’t Christian. Uh what?!!! She dedicated the next several years into trapping me into going to church. The only time she succeeded was for my father’s funeral where she had the minister give an altar call, at… a… funeral….

I chose to sit with my aunt and cousins for the funeral and not my mother for a very good reason and I’m glad I did because I instantaneously went homicidal at my mother and the asshole minister who did it. He had the temerity to come up to my pagan sisters and invade our circle after the funeral and grab one and say, “God Bless” to her. To which I replied loudly, “Goddess bless you!” and watched him scurry away to avoid contamination.

I’ve heard a lot of straight people say, “well If you “choose” to be gay what does that make me? “ It makes them stupid and vain and overly concerned with other people’s opinion that is none of your beeswax.

Why? Oh Why does anyone else’s life choice have anything to do with other people’s existence? It’s like the idiot when I used to give talks about being gay to classes at CSUN in the early 80’s that said I was a lesbian just so I wouldn’t have to date him.????!!! Really?? I got up one morning and said Joe Blow is going to want to date me so I’m going to make my life significantly more difficult and become a lesbian just in case. That made almost as much sense as when Oberon Zell told me right before my coven was going to put on the women’s ritual (We were all lesbians but 1) at Harvest Moon that he didn’t like lesbians. We weren’t “available” to him? And he did it in front of Morning Glory which made it doubly rude. Another Really? Was I put in this earth to sleep with him? Ick?

So thank you for your courage and decency for standing up for your friends and family. That sea of red was wonderful and cheering.

I think we are going to lose on Prop 8 and win on DOMA which just means another proposition that this time we will win.